Pegging For Beginners

Porn is not only a result of sexual liberation in society. It’s also encouraging people to explore their sexuality. When our dads and grandads were young, only the sluttiest women were ok with sucking dick. Porn convinced couples to try oral sex, and we all loved it. It convinced babes to take cumshots on their faces and even swallow jizz. But it did things to get the men of the world into some kinks too. It started with ass eating. Men started eating ass and then realized that they enjoyed having their ass eaten too. And then they realized they enjoy prostate massages. From there to getting men into pegging was only one step. And sites like Cruel Strapon, Femdom Empire, or Cum Clinic pushed men over the edge.

If you are one of the guys who are thinking about trying strapon kink in the bedroom, you should read this. This article is also for all the girlfriends or wives of guys who might enjoy such a kink. Here’s a quick guide on how to start experimenting with pegging.

How To Come Forward With It

Coming forward to your partner about such a kink can be difficult no matter on which side of the strapon you want to be. But the best way is to ease in the idea. Ask for small things at first. Let your partner mess around with the fingers. Try to get a prostate massage together. Make sure you are 100% comfortable with each other’s kinks, and everything will be fine.

How To Pick The Right Toy

Picking the first strapon for your kinks can make the difference. You should go with something you can take. Our advice is to go with something small at first. It will be easy for both partners to handle a smaller strapon. With training and experience, you can move up to bigger sizes. You should consider another thing when you buy a toy to make sure your partner won’t be freaked out by it. That’s why it shouldn’t be the first toy you introduce to the bedroom.

Porn Is Your Friend

When it comes to pegging, you can trust the porn industry to offer you inspiration. We recommend watching pegging porn together with your partner before you try anything. You will better get used to the idea and you can learn some moves that will enhance your experiences. Other sites we recommend for great pegging porn are Sweet FemDom, Kinky Mistress and Divine Bitches.  

Know Your Kink

There are different approaches when it comes to pegging. Not everything is about femdom, and you can’t expect your GF or wife to be a pegging domina from the first try. The first experience should be all about exploring. Don’t put pressure, and don’t expect to have that intense hands-free prostate orgasm that you’ve seen in porn. That takes a lot of practice. Allow yourself to be clumsy. That extreme femdom pegging action can wait.

Lube, Lube, Lube!

One of the biggest mistakes people make when pegging is the same mistake people make when it comes to anal sex in general. People forget about lube. The rectum is not as naturally lubricated like the vagina. On top of that, a strap-on doesn’t have the same gliding properties as a real cock. So, don’t spare any lube!